The storm eventually 'blew out'. [='blew over'] = The storm eventually 'blew itself out'. [=the storm eventually ended]
I was late for the job interview and that 'blew it' for me. [=that caused me not to get the job]
The bomb 'blew' the bridge to bits/smithereens. [=the bomb completely destroyed the bridge]
(..) Why are you so sure? Maybe there's something he could do to fix things. I love my husband and care about him... ...but sometimes that just is not enough. Well, he blew it. Jump. - Mom? - Yeah. Hey, Alex. - Mom? (..)2009 17 Again