When we 'chose sides' in gym class, I was always the last person to be picked to be on a team.
He was 'chosen' because he's qualified for the job.
She was 'chosen' from a long list of people.
(..) Now don't you think your fear is a small price to pay? William, my circumstance has changed. Alicia's pregnant. I told you attachments were dangerous. You chose to marry the girl. I did nothing to prevent it. The best way to ensure everybody's safety... ...is for you to continue your work. (..)2001 A Beautiful Mind