She has a reputation that 'commands' attention/respect. [=people give her respect/attention because of her reputation]
In the United States, the President as the commander in chief is at the head of the military 'chain of command'.
She seems to be 'in (full) command of' the situation. [=she seems to have complete control of the situation]
(..) team to retrieve her. Good. My baby! My baby! Sir, she won't respond to verbal commands. - We can't shut her down. - Leave us now. Clear the floor. That's enough, Maeve. That's enough. My baby. He killed her. - He took her from me. (..)2016 TvShow: Westworld Title: Trace Decay Season: 1 Episode 8