He is a 'commanding' figure in American literature. [=he is an important and respected figure in American literature]
He has a 'commanding presence' when he speaks. [=he attracts attention when he speaks]
The hill provides a 'commanding view' of the surrounding countryside.
(..) Irri, take her and leave us. Yes, Khaleesi. - Why did you hit her?! - How many times do I have to tell you? - You do not command me. - I wasn't commanding you. I just wanted to invite you to supper. - What's this? - It's a gift. - I had it made for you. - Dothraki rags? (..)2011 TvShow: Game of Thrones Title: Cripples, Bastards, and Broken Things Season: 1 Episode 4