To find the meaning of an unknown word you should look at the 'contextual clues' provided by the words that are around it.
To really know a word, you must be able to use it 'in context'. [=in a sentence with other words]
When taken 'out of context', his comments sound cruel, but he was really only joking.
(..) We're fine, we used to be married, but he couldn't handle me, he wanted to put me on Prozac and now he's in love with his laptop. Yeah you listen to the context conversation... I was trying to say is... You wanted to have a wYeahe without the challenges of actually dealing with anything real. (..)2013 Her