They were friends for many years before they became 'lovers'.
She left her husband and ran away with her 'lover'.
His wife accused him of having a secret 'lover'.
(..) Well... No. No. No I-I didn't. I mean she told me how she traveled after collage but... She failed to mention the lesbian lover... Who ran an international drug smuggling ring. Imagine my surprise. What on Earth did you do with the money? Well... Grandmother I wasn't really in it for the money. (..)2013 TvShow: Orange Is the New Black Title: I Wasn't Ready Season: 1 Episode 1