She spoke without a trace/hint of 'self-pity'.
He was wallowing in 'self-pity'.
a 'self-pitying' complainer
(..) No one tells me to do anything. Clever fellow. Can't argue with his logic. I'm no use to you over there. Don't get angry. I'm not angry. I'm full of self-pity. Who comes after you? Who can ever follow Daenerys Stormborn, the Mother of Dragons? A great number of women, I imagine. (..)2016 TvShow: Game of Thrones Title: The Winds of Winter Season: 6 Episode 10