Try to 'put yourself in their shoes' [=try to imagine yourself in their situation] and think of how you would want to be treated.
I don't think anyone will be able to 'fill her shoes' [=do what she does as well as she does it] after she retires.
“Are you calling me a cheater?” “Well, 'if the shoe fits, wear it'.” [=('Brit') 'if the cap fits, wear it']
(..) C'mon Daddy, listen to me! It's like, it's like, all of my life, everyone has always told me, 'You're a shoe! You're a shoe, you're a shoe, you're a shoe!'. And today I just stopped and I said, 'What if I don't wanna be a shoe? What if I wanna be a- a purse, y'know? Or a- or a hat! (..)1994 TvShow: Friends Title: The One Where Monica Gets a Roommate Season: 1 Episode 1