Management tried to 'soften' the impact of the layoffs by offering early retirement packages. = They tried to 'soften the blow' by offering early retirement packages.
His arrogance is 'softened' by a good sense of humor. [=his sense of humor makes his arrogance less annoying]
They used artillery to 'soften up' the enemy's defenses before launching a full-scale attack.
(..) Well, where're we going? Just a little place I like to call You'll See. I'm starving. You got any of those free doughnuts you use to soften people up? By the Service Department. All right, remember, no rustproofing. Commit to nothing. If you have to speak, mumble. -Au revoir, Le George. (..)1998 TvShow: Seinfeld Title: The Dealership Season: 9 Episode 11