(..) I would beg and borrow to get your dower money. But I don't have the money to pay for extortion. Our child is going through adolescence. She is suffering. So you understand the sensitivity of her adolescence. If she was suffering she wouldn't have stayed. Why do you think she stayed? Did she choose you? To keep us from separating. She knows I won't go anywhere without her. She is suffering but she doesn't show it. Call them now and say I won't pay until it's been proved to me that I am responsible. (..)