He's not 'in sympathy with' the other members of the group. = He's 'out of sympathy with' the other members.
He seems to be 'in sympathy with' our views. [=to agree with and support our views]
She has/feels a deep 'sympathy for' the families of the victims.
(..) Nothing. Mr. Barrow is looking for you. No, sir, I did not say that. And I do sympathize with your situation. I just wish you'd show a bit of sympathy for mine. No, sir, I have not had that privilege. Good-bye. Horse-trading? The army's requisitioned the lot from the German Hospital. (..)2014 TvShow: The Knick Title: The Golden Lotus Season: 1 Episode 9