He's not 'in sympathy with' the other members of the group. = He's 'out of sympathy with' the other members.
He seems to be 'in sympathy with' our views. [=to agree with and support our views]
She has/feels a deep 'sympathy for' the families of the victims.
(..) Just because I have no wish to murder you before the eyes of your daughter does not mean that parading her around in front of me is gonna inspire sympathy. You and I have unfinished business. And not a goddamn fucking thing you've done in the subsequent four years, (..)2003 Kill Bill: Vol. 1